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Learn to love, and drop all that goes against love….OSHO

Learn to love, and drop all that goes against love....

Passion alone is not able to sustain love; compassion is needed.
If you are able to be compassionate towards the other; if you are able to accept his limitations, his imperfections; if you are able to accept him the way he is or she is and Still love — then one day a marriage happens. That may take years. That may take your whole life.
OSHO

 

There is a tremendous desire and longing for love, but love needs great awareness. Only then can it reach its highest climax — and that highest climax IS marriage.

 

It has nothing to do with law. It is a merging of two hearts into totality. It is the functioning of two persons in synchronicity — that is marriage.

 

But people try love and because they are unconscious…their longing is good, but their love is full of jealousy, full of possessiveness, full of anger, full of nastiness. Soon they destroy it.

 

Hence for centuries they have depended on marriage. Better to start by marriage so that the law can protect you from destroying it. The society, the government, the court, the policeman, the priest, they will all force you to live in the institution of marriage, and you will be just a slave.

 

If marriage is an institution, you are going to be a slave in it. Only slaves want to live in institutions.

 

Marriage is a totally different phenomenon: it is the climax of love. Then it is good.

 

I am not against marriage — I am for the REAL marriage. I am against the false, the pseudo, that exists.

 

But it is an arrangement. It gives you a certain security, safety, occupation. It keeps you engaged. Otherwise, it gives you no enrichment, it gives you no nourishment.

 

So, if you want to get married according to me, only then can I give you my blessings.

 

Learn to love, and drop all that goes against love. It is an uphill task. It is the greatest art in existence, to be able to love. One needs such refinement, such inner culture, such meditativeness, so that one can see immediately how one goes on destroying.

 

If you can avoid being destructive, if you become creative in your relationship; if you support it, nourish it; if you are capable of compassion for the other person, not only passion….

 

Passion alone is not able to sustain love; compassion is needed.

 If you are able to be compassionate towards the other; if you are able to accept his limitations, his imperfections; if you are able to accept him the way he is or she is and Still love — then one day a marriage happens. That may take years. That may take your whole life.

 

OSHO

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